I wish i weren't able to let things bother me as they obviously don't bother other persons...and as my best friend said, quoting from her " it's high time there was a user manual for love...or a troubleshooting...or even a help button...'for your problem, do such & such...has your problem been fixed? If no, do this & that' :s

I know life is all about changes rite, but what really happens when the change occurring gives one person the short end of the stick??? What if the change occurring is conducted by only one party and it hardly affects them? I mean yea, changes usually affect all parties involved, but at times, one party is affected more than the other is...but i guess that's life right, and you have to deal with it !?