ok, got some more questions....

had remembered something today that was said a while ago..that it is not who makes your life the most happy, it is who makes your life the least unhappy..then i was there talking to my bestfriend and she brought up the same thing but in another aspect: it is not who you can live with, it is who you can live without...

now i was thinking about the first part and i was saying, yea that easy to do but will you be as satisfied..that person that you find to make your life the least unhappy might not give you the same amount of passion that you looking for from the person who may make you the happiest, so really and truly you are back at square one cause without your satisfaction in life you can't be happy got muh?

There is this couple i know of, been together for 4 years, never had an argument, now the girl came back from away and told the man that she loves him as a friend..dine see that coming, did you? bet some of you did...well anyhow, the living without part is the same reasoning as above, passion drives us and it is what we want in all sorts of ways..i say no passion, no life satisfaction, no true happiness....

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